The best virtual gift websites for your boyfriend
A photo puzzle, a date plan he can accept, or a short list of reasons you love him. Interactive gifts tend to land better with guys than long messages.
Most gift advice for guys is a list of gadgets. This isn't that. If you want to send him something online that actually lands, here's where to make it and what to send.
Quick disclosure: this site is run by the people behind SendLove, which is one of the sites on this list. We've tried to be fair about where the others do a better job, and we say so when they do.
Why a virtual gift works well for a lot of guys
Here's something a lot of people don't say out loud: many men rarely get told, in detail, why they're appreciated. They get "love you" texts, sure. They don't often get a whole page about it.
That's why a virtual gift can hit harder than you'd expect. It's not about the object. It's about the fact that you sat down and made something just for him. And unlike a card, he can open it again on a bad day.
The best sites for sending him something
SendLove: best overall for boyfriends
SendLove has the most variety for couples, which matters more than it sounds. You don't want to send him the same kind of thing every time.
A few that tend to work well for guys:
- Puzzle Gift: he solves a puzzle to reveal a photo of you two. It's a small challenge, which a lot of guys enjoy more than reading a long message.
- Plan a Date: you plan it, he just picks the day and time. No back-and-forth texting about where to go.
- Why I Love You: a list of reasons. Keep them short and specific. He'll screenshot it.
- Countdown to Reunion: if you're long distance, this one is a favourite. It counts down to the next time you see each other.
- Make Them Say Yes: ask him something, and the No button runs away. Silly, which is the point.
Browse gifts for him on SendLove →
Our GiftVerse: best for a big birthday when you're apart
If it's a major occasion and you're long distance, GiftVerse builds a 3D room you can both explore on a video call, with a cake to blow out together and some couple games. It's more of an event than a quick gift.
Gifft.me: best for something light and funny
Gifft.me's gifts play out like a little quest with your message at the end. Good for a laugh, free with ads.
AIskyla: best if money is tight
Free, no sign-up, with puzzles, scratch cards and gift boxes. Just know photos and music are removed after 15 days.
What to send him, by situation
For his birthday
Go with a photo album of the past year, or a puzzle that ends on your favourite photo of him. Add one line about something he did this year that you were proud of. Not a big speech, one specific thing.
After a fight
Skip the jokes. A short letter works best: what you're sorry for, what matters more to you than being right, and something you want to do together soon. Then actually call him.
When you're long distance
A countdown to your next visit gives him something to look at every day. Pair it with a date plan for the first night you're back together.
Just because
Flowers might seem like an odd choice for a guy, but plenty of men have never received flowers in their life. Virtual or not, it's a gesture people remember.
A few things that make it better
- Use the name you actually call him, not his full name.
- Pick a photo where he looks happy, not one where he looks good. Those aren't the same.
- Send it with a short text so it doesn't look like spam: "Open this when you have a minute."
- Don't over-explain. If there's an inside joke, let it be an inside joke.
Make one in a few minutes
Pick a gift, add your words and photos, and send it as a link.
View gifts on SendLoveFrequently asked questions
What's a good virtual gift for a boyfriend?
A photo puzzle, a date plan he can accept, or a short list of reasons you love him. Interactive gifts tend to land better with guys than long messages.
What can I send my boyfriend online when we're long distance?
A countdown to your next visit works especially well, because it gives him something to look forward to every day.
Is a virtual gift enough for his birthday?
It can be, if it's personal. Many people pair a virtual gift on the day with something physical when they next see each other.